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Does Celibacy Sell?

(Rant: August 2005)

 

Not if you’re a virile teen desperate to get a can of Gillette’s Tag (Gillette doesn’t want its stoic, blue chip name affiliated with its hip new body spray targeted at young men, because if the dudes get wind of who’s putting it out, it might not evoke as much sexual– and commercial—pandemonium as the riotous TV spots depict) and record that first notch on your belt, but The 40 Year Old Virgin—a comedy exactly about what the title proclaims—certainly hit a homerun this week bringing in 21 million dollars and securing the top spot in the weekly box office derby. Droll, dry and with just enough romance and sophomoric dick jokes to appeal across the spectrum (fifty-year-old moms will be warmed by the protagonist not taking exception to a potential mate revealing after a few dates that she in fact has several children, and fourteen-year-old boys will howl with delight at the morning wood gags), it’s the polar opposite of 9 Songs, the NC-17 film that pretty much has its lead actors making love for real (or fucking, to put it bluntly and more accurately) and as a result has received resistance at every turn—critics, censors and most of all, film goers. 

 

That right, you can go to your local Cineplex and see a movie about a guy not getting laid, and a movie, where the actor’s are really doing it (Not simulated sex mind you, as has been the industry standard. Simulated sex requires a stretch of thespian talent and directorial finesse, though it was alleged that Mickey Rourkey in 9&1/2 Weeks (1986) and, even more so, in Wild Orchid (1990), went beyond the call of duty.). How’s that for a double bill?

 

NC-17 has always been the kiss of death. Young Adam (2003) in which Ewan McGregor flashes his manhood and Brown Bunny (2003) where actress Chloë Sevigny performs fellatio on writer/director/star Vincent Gallo (I must admit to having a an odd feeling in my stomach when I recently saw the lovely Sevigny in the wonderful new film from Jim Jarmush, Broken Flowers. All I could think of was her Gallo days. Hopefully time will free her from such infamy.), got an NC-17 or no-rating from the MPAA for their stunts. Each film cost more than five million to make and combined, grossed barely over a half million. Others, Peter Greenway’s Pillow Book (1996)—where McGregor also goes full frontal—The Cook, the Thief, His Wife and Her Lover (1989), which struggled to get an R rating, and Bernardo Bertolucci’s The Last Tango in Paris (1972), found financial and critical success. Much of that had to do with the fact they challenged audiences with complex situations that were palpable, not art wrapped around shock and genitalia. (That said, Gallo and 9 Songs director, Michael Winterbottom have made groundbreaking films in the past. Buffalo ‘66 (1998) for Gallo and Welcome to Sarajevo (1997) and 24 Hour Party People (2002) for Winterbottom).

 

The line between art and pornography in the context of 9 Songs and Brown Bunny is very thin; especially since neither film really pushes the audience save the shock of cock. Sure there’s an arty texture, but besides the big scene—and in the case of 9 Songs, some great music—they’re bombastic exercises fueled by miscalculation and vanity. If someone were to add plot and some serious thespians to porn, would Nicole Kidman have to give head to gain another Oscar nod? (In all likelihood Fidel Castro would submit Cuba to the United States as providence long before that happens.) The power of titillation, desire, yearning, teasing—foreplay if you will—far exceeds that of the actual act, climax and comedown. That’s the power of eroticism over porn. (Think the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue versus Hustler; it’s an easy choice). The what’s to come is what we really live for, not the what we’ve had.

 

So hail the virgin? Well yes and no, actor/writer Steve Carell and writer/director

Judd Apatow do get their finger on a character with real issues (how many nice guys are out there not getting any?); and the film pretty much packs a hearty laugh for anyone with a funny bone to tickle. Basically nerds rule, they drink milk, don’t get laid and live in a tidy shrine that looks like a subdivision of Neverland. (Think Pee-wee, After Hours, Something Wild, Revenge of the Nerds, Something About Mary, The Blue Angel, Old School, Animal House and so on—you could even thrown in the Marx Brothers and Charlie Chaplin). What you’ve got is a PG-13 (maybe R) rating and when the dork goes out on the town, has a beer or two and runs into a lusty vamp wearing next to nothing, it’s sure fire laughs and box office gold.

 

Let’s face it, a guy who gets laid all the time just isn’t as interesting as the guy who struggles with hopes, dreams and desires—most of which get dashed. You identify with him and root for him. Sure, you’d like to be the guy with a turnstile for a bedroom door, but that’s not a practical or possible reality for most of us.

 

The Virgin will certainly have its run this summer, but what will Carell and Apatow do for an encore, Born Again: Virgin 2, Back on the Prowl?

 

- TBM

 

 

 

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